Ankyloglossia (commonly-known as tongue tie or tongue-tied) occurs when the lingual frenulum (membrane connecting the tongue with the bottom of the mouth) is either positioned incorrectly or is too tight.
Look at your tongue in the mirror. You will see that the frenulum attaches in the middle of the tongue. This normal condition prevents the tongue from falling out of the mouth or being swallowed.
In tongue-tied babies the frenulum “ties” the tongue to the bottom of the mouth and restricts its movement. Depending on the structure and the position of lingual frenulum, ankyloglossia can vary in severity.
The easiest tongue tie to diagnose and correct is the one where the frenulum attaches close to the tip or on the very tip of the tongue.
The hardest tongue tie to deal with is the hidden one, when the frenulum attaches properly in the middle of the tongue or to the very base of the tongue, but is too tight and inflexible. It is called posterior. This one is hard to see, because it occurs deeper in the mouth.
My son had the visible ankyloglossia. When he first latched on, it felt fine. He breastfed from the first hours of life.
Next day a hospital lactation consultant came to check on us. I asked her to look at my son’s latching on. By then I thought it looked and felt different from what I expected it to be. His latch felt very shallow and his mouth could hardly embrace the nipple, let alone the areola.
The consultant watched, made adjustments and told us to keep trying till her next visit. By the time of her next visit my nipples were already sore and cracking. My son seemed to be pressing on them with his gums with all the strength he had.
Before the consultant’s visit we were struggling through another feeding session and after a couple of attempts my son pushed away from the breast, arched and started screaming.
Right then in his tiny mouth I saw this tissue uncomfortably holding his tongue still. It was as if he screamed, but his tongue didn’t!
When the consultant arrived she examined my baby’s mouth and tongue and said he was tongue-tied, which was the reason for his shallow latch and restless nursing.
It is important to correct tongue tie as early in baby's life as possible. The procedure is called frenotomy. It is fairly easy and done in doctor's office. Read more about frenotomy.
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